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My First Time at a Quinceanera

Last Saturday I had the privilege of attending the Quniceanera of a special young lady at the Hispanic church I go to on Sundays Ministerial Manatial de Vida. A Quinceanera is the 15th birthday party for a young woman in Mexican culture. It is an important moment in her life and a rite of passage.

The Quniceanera I went to was for a special young lady named Natasha. It was wonderful to see how the whole church came together to help her celebrate. It began with her friends walking together down the aisle. Then Natasha came in escorted by her older brother. She sat down under an arch that was decorated in blue and white. She stayed seated while her father spoke a blessing to her and while we sang some worship songs. The pastor shared with her about the significance of the gifts. One aunt placed a ring on her finger to symbolize purity. Another aunt gave her a bible for her to learn more about God. A cousin gave her an embroidered pillow. Another aunt placed a crown on her head to symbolize her position with God. The pastor’s wife placed a watch on her wrist. It was a beautiful ceremony.

What made it so meaningful was to see the outpouring of love by her family and also their friends at church. After the ceremony we enjoyed some delicious food. I had an opportunity to meet some new friends and also to spend time with those I know already. Of course we had cake and I won’t say how many pieces I wanted to eat. I actually had one the next day because I was busy walking around taking pictures for the family.

I do not know how other Quinceanera’s are celebrated, but based on the one I went to it is obvious how significant a Quinceanera is for the girl and for her family. It gave a little better understanding of Mexican culture and of my friends. I am definitely glad I went. Feliz Cumpleaños Natasha and Dios te Bendiga.

July 7, 2011 Posted by internationalmatt | Cutural Celebrations, Experiences of international friends, Hispanic friends, Internationals, Mexico | 2 Comments